For all the woman out there that have a hard time in this area as Michael Jackson said in his song, “You are not alone”, I am here with you LOL! I am still asking myself why am I in this category. When this topic comes up it just frustrates me. How many times have you heard people tell you that you are too difficult? Are you really difficult? Or is it something else? I come from the Generation X group. This means I’m not young or super old. I am old enough to still believe that men should open doors and pay for meals. I also believe that a man should be a good provider. In other words he should have a good job and be able to stand on his own two feet. Dating at my age sucks. With all the convenience of sexual images from the internet and cell phones this has brought the morality way down. Every guy nowadays doesn’t want it if it is not easy. They don’t expect to have to work for it. Date what is that ? You want to go out somewhere and talk! If you mention these things guys jump to the sexual side asking for the expectations of what this means for them before going on the date. What in the world is this? Why aren’t more woman upset at the fact that a man has no idea what your value is. Ladies continue to be who you are don’t change your moral standards because men are dumb. My next thought is when a man tells you he wants a good woman. Hmm he says the words but can’t support them with actions. Does he even know what a good woman is? He wants the nice and sweet, smart, independent but not too independent woman. She has to to be in shape and what he really means is skinny. Let’s be honest someone who is small does not mean they are healthy. As long as your skinny then he can say your healthy. It does not matter that you might do crystal meth or smoke 2 packs of cigarettes to stay that small. As long as your healthy (aka skinny). Remember how I said you can not be too independent? Well what that means is you just cant make more money than him. When you make more money it makes them feel as though they are less of a man. Why this is I don’t know. Finding a balance with all these different aspects is really hard. Or just finding a honest man period. A man that actually knows what he is saying or asking for is he out there?